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Post by Admin on Apr 3, 2018 16:20:17 GMT -4
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Post by Laura Torres (LTC-UMHS) on Apr 4, 2018 3:24:03 GMT -4
The Rock and Depression
‘You are not alone’: Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson open up about depression
Sometimes is hard to imagine how successful, famous and wealthy people in the different senses can have depression, but this shows us an important lesson; depression and other mental conditions do not discriminate. It is pretty sad how the actions and decisions of our significant other, family and friends can affect and marks our lives. Not all people are enough mentally strong to deal with an event like this. The good part is that both of them Dwayne and his mother have moved forward and they have superated this traumatic part of their lives. I really admire Dwayne to take the step to publicly talk about this because it really helps other people that are maybe passing for something similar and it shows to these people that they are not alone. One of the worst feelings that people can have is when they feel that they are alone. When you are depressed and in pain, and on top of it you feel alone in the world even when people surround you it can lead you to do horrible things. It is important that people know that they are not alone and there are other people that surround them that are maybe experiencing similar situations or conditions, and they should know that there are; groups, organizations and other people that can help them. I really sympathize with Dwayne and his history because I can imagine the suffering that a suicide attempt from your own mother can cause to a child of 15 years old, that is also going through one of the most difficult stages of the life (adolescence). Also, the fact to have witnessed your mother’s suicide attempt is very traumatic. All of these stressors and traumatic events contribute to Dwayne’s depression and it could have ended in a tragedy either to Dwayne or his mother. I admire how he has opened to talk about this part of his life and how he has expressed how he felt about it. When he mentions; “What’s crazy about that suicide attempt is that to this day, she has no recollection of it whatsoever”, just show us that sometimes people don't realize how their actions can significantly affect forever the lives of their loved ones. Finally, as Dwayne says in the article; “We all go thru the sludge and depression never discriminates”.
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Post by Laura Torres (LTC-UMHS) on Apr 4, 2018 3:25:30 GMT -4
“Zayn Opens Up About Conquering Anxiety, Prepping Album No.2 -- and Why He’s Been Living on a Farm”
I found this article really interesting and complex. I really can sympathize with Mr. Zyan about how stressful his time with One Direction could have been; however, I cannot recall an artist’s life that is not stressful. The fans, the environment, the deadlines of different works and the performance onstage between others factors can produce a huge stress and anxiety. However, like in any other work you need to learn how to deal with each situation. Every work or profession has his own exposition to stress, furthermore, life itself has a lot of stressful situations that as an adult we need to learn how to manage, because if not they can trigger different things in our lives including anxiety. I am not the kind of person that is judging, and I am not also the person to say what is right or not. All stories have two sides and through this article, we are just seeing one part of the story. However, I am going to express my sincere opinion based on this article. I have appreciated according to this article that Mr. Zyan has not just an anxiety problem, but he also seems to have a lack of compromise and he does not seem to like or to follow rules. This is probably why he quit One Direction and why his stance in the group was so stressful. In the article says that he also canceled shows in London, Dubai, and Japan. Since Malik left One Direction he has not launched a tour, or play a single major concert. What it seems to me is that he really has more than a huge anxiety problem; he also seems to have problems performing, and meet deadlines. I really can understand that sometimes we need to take some time to not go crazy but there is a huge difference between taking a time and just laying back. The farm is maybe a good idea for him to escape from the reality and if it is working to give him some peaceful space to feel and work better, then good for him. However, sometimes we need to grow up and be more responsible. The problem is not in taking free time, because who does not love or enjoy having free time. The problem is when you compromise to do something and you fail to do it, not one time but multiple times. I really don’t believe when he says to the author; “Today, he insists that he is in a much better place” because one more time at the end of the article he shows his lack of compromise to his word. Moreover, when you can’t keep your word, it just shows your lack of compromise and honesty. This last can be appreciated in the article when the author’s article asks Malik if he would feel comfortable playing a song for him, and Malik says yes, but then Malik left and he never comes back. That action was so unprofessional and at least if you are not going to really play the song then don’t compromise your own word and be honest refusing to do it. It just shows the same Malik of One Direction. I hope he can really find what he wants in life and also he can find some help. It is really sad to see people with talent that are really wasting it. When perfectionism overpasses efficacy; it is there when we have a problem. This is because that anxiety to improve everything until become perfect (because they are worried think that what they are doing has a lot of mistakes) consumes the individual to the point that he/she cannot meet the deadlines or even worst finish the work. It is at this time when the anxiety, fear, and worry functionally impair our lives, to the point that we cannot longer meet the qualities to reach either efficiency or perfection.
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Post by Laura Torres (LTC-UMHS) on Apr 4, 2018 3:31:08 GMT -4
Selena and Mental Health
“Selena Gomez on Instagram Fatigue, Good Mental Health, and Stepping Back From the Limelight”
It is really impressive to see how mental health does not discriminate. Sometimes the fame, money, and success are not enough to make people happy. I never imagined in my life that Gomez has mental-health crisis or that she was diagnosed with Lupus. I feel really bad for her and I really sympathize with her. I totally agreed with Gomez when she says: “… life is so stressful…” however, as adults, we need to be able to work through life instead of escaping from it. I can understand why she feels the way that she feels about fame because sometimes people just expect from artists perfection and they forget that artists are also a human being that can make mistakes. However, when you become an artist you privacy basically end and you become the eyes of all your fans because they are the ones that are giving you the fame. I cannot imagine how can feel be the most followed person on Instagram if that can make you feel either important or paranoid. I definitely agreed with Gomez when she explains that the social networks can consume us as individuals because our lives become dependent on it, and of what can people say or not say. When a person becomes dependent on the social media, that is the problem because it functionally impair you as a human being and it affects yourself and your surroundings. I really admire Gomez for accepting her mental health problem and for seeking help. I am pretty sure that the Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) has changed her life in a positive way and it has helped her to cope with her emotions and the stress of life. I also have seen one of her recent productions “13 Reasons Why” that address the issues of teen suicide and the pressure of social media, which somehow reflects part of the stressful situation of Gomez's life with the social media. I really didn't know too much about Gomez until now, and I definitely recognize her courage of being authentic and try to help and encourage other young girls like her to seek help. Finally, it is certainly ironic how some people work really hard to be unforgettable and others just want to be forgotten.
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Post by Richard Blumengold on Apr 4, 2018 11:03:05 GMT -4
Dwayne 'The Rock' Johnson opens up about depression
This article speaks to the current epidemic of the "tough guy upbringing" in the United States. As men, we are told from a young not to be "pansies" or "sissies" and to quit crying and man up. Those early developmental years where we are learning to process emotions healthily through crying or vocalizing what is going on in our heads are crucial to becoming well adjusted adults. To see prominent figures in pop culture such as Dwayne Johnson, whom I passionately remember growing up idolizing as "The People's Champ" in the WWE, one of the most vibrant superstars in entertainment, be open about his struggles with mental health shows just how deeply and ubiquitously this problem runs. Listening to interviews he does, his interactions with other celebrities or just his general positive demeanor, one would never guess that this was a man who has suffered from depression. Recently, Robin Williams was lost to the world behind smiles and jokes as his long battle with depression and anxiety finally became too much. I think that with the likes of Dwayne Johnson and other major celebrities who have recently spoken as to their own struggles with mental health, it will empower younger generations to come forward with their problems and receive the attention and treatment they so desperately need. It goes to show that no matter how much money, power or spotlight you achieve, happiness is not tangible and is something that you need to b true and open with yourself and others to find.
“I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy because they know what it’s like to feel absolutely worthless and they don’t want anyone else to feel like that.” - Robin Williams
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Post by Richard Blumengold on Apr 4, 2018 11:16:32 GMT -4
“Zayn Opens Up About Conquering Anxiety, Prepping Album No.2 -- and Why He’s Been Living on a Farm”
Zayn Malik's willingness to unplug and detach from his celebrity lifestyle by living and working this farm land affirms my former post where I stated that no amount of money or spotlight can guarantee happiness. His life was spiraled into a whirlwind with his newfound fame with OneDirection and he felt as though nothing in his life was in his control. Press bookings, constant flights, his personal life becoming public news daily and last but not least the sheer scrutiny one in the music business faces with each passing project, all creating this culture of "do only as you are told" in his young mind. He states in the article that food was all he could control, so he did, and eventually wound up suffering from severe anxiety and an eating disorder. As medical students I'm sure that between hours of studying and caffeine fueled rounds at hospitals, I am not the only one who briefly allows myself to enter a fantasy world where I am one of those celebrities. But seldom can we comprehend just what it would be like to not be able to leave our homes without a swarm of people following us, snapping photos, criticizing how we dress, who we date, what we do with our free time, etc. To be thrusted into this lifestyle from 17 years old, I don't believe many of us would have faired much better than he did under the circumstances. Once he removed himself what being what he was told to be, delved into his solo career and made his shows more liken to his reserved personality, Zayn found peace, which speaks to the true message of the article: "when everything around you is moving 200 mph, the fastest way to slow it all down, is to focus on who you are, what you really want and what is actually happening in front of you, instead of what you perceive/are told will happen."
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Post by Gilbert on Apr 4, 2018 11:19:56 GMT -4
Really, The Rock, Do you smell what The Rock is cooking!, that Rock, like what was said, I would have never thought that the rock had these type of issues, i mean its tough having to save your suicidal mom; that now forget she is suicidal, at the age of 15 or any age, while also being depress, im sure he understood to a point but not fully to why mom wants to kill herself, or did he and still having to deal with being a teen, having girl trouble and i don't think he had much help although he said we were lucky; seen the whole family is battling their own depression. This struggle and pain that he illustrated in his show the Baller, with the suicide issue, could have also been worsen by the reliance on those pain pills he kept taking for injuries possibly due to football; if that was real. At least he publically came out and his family, showing once again that its ok to vent and not bottle up issues such as this.
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Post by Gilbert on Apr 4, 2018 11:24:52 GMT -4
Selena has been through alot, although she is one of the top child stars, very famous; being around the top for the most followers and fans, also having quite a net worth, she has now bubble herself to a simple airbnb apartment, with contact to seventeen friends besides her parents and manager, having love her fans but wants to be left alone, avoiding social medias all together. She has a personality disorder and some antisocial characteristics. She's got it made yet it seems like its too much for her. Being depress, anxious, sad, lonely, not worthy. Yes she made herself vulnerable telling everything to everyone, knowing people can't handle things, weather blowing it out of proportion or not understanding. I would like to think she had someone(s) helping her through this journey, in all with the parents to keep her world balance. But it seem this is a self esteem issue. Then again she didn't really had a chance to be a kid or grow up, this is where most life lessons are taught, and just the shear stress alone and her wanting to escape, good thing she found therapy when she did, being in a non judgemental evnvironment, where every one is on the same level. This is a display that well made stars have issues too. She is very influential and this public explanation might possibly help other child stars who are going through something similar.
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Post by Richard Blumengold on Apr 4, 2018 11:29:32 GMT -4
Selena Gomez on Instagram Fatigue, Good Mental Health, and Stepping Back From the Limelight
Selena Gomez's comments regarding her desire to bridge the gap between her and her fans through social media is a refreshing change. Growing up, we perceived these people in the Hollywood spotlight to be untouchable. Impervious to the struggles of the average human being due to their extensive financial resources and social privileges. Now, more and more celebrities are trying to show their fans that they are just like them: awkward, nervous and desperate for approval of others. Gomez, in fact, vividly details her struggles of loneliness on tour, panic attacks prior to performances and bouts of depression after being on the road for extended periods of time. Though, yes, the average person is not flying around the world in 10 months performing for sold out arenas, but everyone can relate to the overall sensation of being alone. Being on a Caribbean island, thousands of miles from all things familiar and having to attend medical school, for example. She details her 90 day stint in Tennessee where she was finally free of the spotlight and allowed to just be a normal person for a bit, and low and behold, she was able to bring herself peace of mind. Her years of working for the heavily structured and image driven company Disney broke her natural personality down, as she was treated as an employee following the company message, rather than an individual expressing her creative talents. Now more recently, her work on Netflix's 13 Reasons why, shines a bright light on the subject of teen suicide and depression. It acts as a commentary, in an almost 7 degrees of separation type of way, showing how each individual persons actions can affect another, leading ultimately to people feeling alienated and with no where to turn for help. It invites an introspective look for the viewer into their own self awareness and how they conduct themselves around others. Her work not only speaks to her growth as an artist, but as a person who has suffered with bouts of mental illness who is trying to help those less fortunate than she combat and eventually overcome their own struggles.
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Post by ndidiamadi on Apr 4, 2018 13:38:58 GMT -4
This was an interesting article. I certainly agree with Dwayne Johnson, “Struggle and pain are real.” No doubt that we have all, in one way or another, been affected by suicide attempts of our friends and family. It may not even be suicide; death from other causes could drive someone into depression and possibly pathologic grief if they don’t cope well with the news/ realization of their loss. As a society, we have to pay attention to people around us and offer help where we can. Some people find it hard to talk about their struggles with depression and I believe having people of great influence in the society come out to the public about their own struggles may just help someone out there. With fame comes a lot of pressure which would most likely be accompanied by mental stress. For Zayn, having a partner who is supportive and organized has had a major impact on his life.Most times, people get so deep and lost in their pursuit for success that they lose sight of how fast their mental health is deteriorating. From going for days without eating to losing one’s personality. It’s best to have a support system that can help people to cope and deal with the pressures of life. Being in the limelight could have a major toll on people. It takes real courage to know when it is affecting your mental health and you need to take a step back to process things, heal and be revived. I admire Selena’s courage for taking a break from the stage just to heal. Like I said earlier, with fame comes a lot of pressure especially from social media. Social media has a way of making people feel worthless. This is because people often compare themselves to others and they feel like they aren’t doing enough. Therapy can be very helpful and should be an option for people struggling with mental instability
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Post by Michelle G on Apr 4, 2018 20:35:21 GMT -4
‘You are not alone’: Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson opens up about depression
Dwayne Johnson touched on a very important topic in our society that remains swept under the rug, depression. Depression is a mental illness that continues to plague the constructs of our society. It remains one of the most "taboo" discussions, yet, is attributed to a variety of unfortunate situations. Suicide, homicide, deliberate self-harm, to name a few, have been shown to directly correlate to depressive symptoms. As Mr. Johnson pointed out in the article, there are thousands of individuals who are affected by suicides from friends and family, one of which being his mother's attempt. Years passed before Mr. Johnson was finally able to open about his feelings of watching his mother and himself battle through episodes of depression. It plagues the question of "why the wait?" Why do life events or situations trigger a catalyst to seek treatment? For many individuals, "hitting rock bottom" is when they finally feel they can talk to someone. However, shouldn't it be the first time you may be feeling something be a push to seek help? As providers, it stands as an important message that patients may not feel strong enough or comfortable to open-up their hearts trouble; it is our responsibility to create that atmosphere. With the aid of social media, it has become easier for individuals to become transparent; however, I do believe there are still major deficits in our healthcare system that need to be addressed. Mr Johnson stands as one example for a multitude of many.
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Post by Michelle G on Apr 4, 2018 20:58:30 GMT -4
Zayn Opens Up About Conquering Anxiety, Prepping Album No. 2 -- and Why He's Been Living on a Farm
As consistent consumers of music we at times tend to geek over the lifestyle of what some may call "the rich and the famous." The fancy cars, the endless money, entourage, famous friends at your disposal; it paints a picture of happiness and glam. What many artists, such as Zayn, cast a shadow upon are there realities that the "lifestyle" everyone so desperately claims can be desolate. Zayn mentioned in the article the anxiety he battled/s during his time with his group mates as well as a solo artist. Thrown into fame at a young age, there is no rule book written on how the conductor of the train "of life" is to move swiftly. It is evident that Zayn internalized his emotions and even though he was surrounded by individuals who he considered "brothers," remained alone in his thoughts and feelings. He points out in the article a time where he developed an eating disorder. This shined an important light on the importance of recognizing eating disorder as not being gender specific. Although women remain statistically the highest, it is equally important to address eating disorders in men as well. The co-morbid effects of anxiety and the eating disorders lead to damaging effects on his mental health. "Food was something I could control, so I did." It serves as a critical point that the sense of "control" for most patients with anxiety or mental illness overall is an important topic of discussion amongst providers. As providers get to the root causes of a patient's mental health, the unveiling of the truth behind these issues may serve as factors that enable better care overall.
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Post by Michelle G on Apr 4, 2018 22:17:16 GMT -4
Selena Gomez on Instagram Fatigue, Good Mental Health, and Stepping Back From the Limelight
“I wish more people would talk about therapy. We girls, we’re taught to be almost too resilient, to be strong and sexy and cool and laid-back, the girl who’s down. We also need to feel allowed to fall apart.” Ms. Gomez touched upon an important point that women of all ages face today; the desire to be perfect. The ability to allow yourself to be broken and "fall apart" addresses root issues and its branch points. Growing up in the spotlight, Ms. Gomez lived a life under a magnifying glass. Although outwardly she appeared to be "normal" she described feeling alone and inadequate. Her confessions regarding rehab and seeking therapy has the potential to serve as stepping stones for many of her followers. Social media, although has a tendency of being addictive and abused, can pave a path for others to see through a looking glass of the truth that many of these celebrities reveal. Ms. Gomez is a role model for many young girls and her transparency of her mental illness has the potential to empower many individuals
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Post by ifychisom on Apr 5, 2018 2:44:36 GMT -4
It is very interesting to see the struggles Zayn has to go through , I am glad that he did not lie or sugar coat the problem instead acknowledged it and spoke about it publicly. Again theses are just human like any of us they have their daily struggles and inner battle they have to fight. One of his team members offered to write a statement saying that he has been taken ill, but he didn’t want to do that. he was done with putting out statements that masked what was really going on. he wanted to tell the truth. Anxiety is nothing to be ashamed of; it affects millions of people every day. he knew there are many fans out there who have been through this kind of thing, too, and he wanted to be honest for their sake, if nothing else. When he was with One Direction, his anxiety issues were huge but, within the safety net of the band, they were at least manageable. As a solo performer, he felt much more exposed, and the psychological stress of performing had just gotten to be too much for him to handle—at that moment, at least. Rather than hiding away, sugar-coating it, he knew he had to put it all out there. One thing he did not mention is whether he is taken medication or some sort of therapy to help his anxiety Rock:In the case of the rock being a celebrity, depression is not about who you are or your economic status, it affect both rich and poor . There are millions of people affected by this illness but unfornately only very few talk about it apparently due to stigma attached to it. I just hope that with him talking about this and his mother being suicidal it will open door for other people to speak . It is an illness just like cancer . The healing begins immediately you acknowledge that you have a friend. Selena:In the case of Selena again it is all about being truthful to your self understood that she is vulnerable, she admitted that she was depressed, anxious and started to have panic attacks also eating disorder and low self esteem . I did not know that she was battling mental illness and again I am a big fan. She sought for help by checking into a program that involves both individual, group and equine therapy where she met other handful of women. She has become passionate advocate of dialectical behavior therapy which admitted has changed her life. In conclusion these 3 celebrities are human just like any other person but they have daily struggles admitted to that and sought help.
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Post by Livleen Vazhapilly on Apr 5, 2018 9:37:14 GMT -4
‘You are not alone’: Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson opens up about depression- It's great to see people in the fishbowl part of society coming out and admitting to the things that drive them and things that makes them human. It's interesting how he normalized the need for men looking up to him to be able to cry, open up and not bottle up feelings to fit the ideal stereotype society have expected from males. The fact that his monther don't remember the incident makes me wonder about the personality of his mother who seems so dismissive of such a major pain in her life. And on the other hand Mr.Johnson is able to let and feel everything that comes his way and isn't dismissive of any of his emotions and experiences, good and bad.The writer of the article does a great job at painting him as a empathetic guy.
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